You cannot expect to achieve new goals or move beyond your present circumstances unless you change. -Les Brown
What comes to you is based on what you attract. What you attract is based on who you are.
Things move towards what they’re attracted to. It’s a law. It’s just how things work. Bees are attracted to pollen. If it’s not pollen, the bee won’t go. Ants are attracted to food. People are attracted to smiling faces. Plants are attracted to the sun.
How can you apply this to your life?
Start with what you want to achieve. Do you want to be able to make US$4,000 a month? Do you want to attract husband/wife that knows how to love, respect you and make you feel like a queen/king? Do you want to be the one that always get promoted? Do you want to be a top athlete? Do you want to be spoken about as the top person in your field. It could be ANYTHING you desire really. Do you want a particular type customer coming into your business?
Whatever it is you want you then need to not chase the goal itself, but ask yourself what is $4,000 a month in income attracted to? What kind of characteristics, habits, thoughts, way of life does the person who earns $4,000 a month have. Who is the “great husband/wife” of your dreams attracted to? What kind of man/woman do you need to become to attract that person.
It’s pointless getting upset that the things you want are not coming into your life. If who you are is not what those things are attracted to, it’s just not going to happen. Even if for some reason it happens to fall into your life, you won’t be able to sustain it and keep it in your life. Put a bunch of bees near vinegar and all they’re going to do is fly away in search of what they really want.
If you keep getting the same results it’s not because the world is against you or you’re just incapable. It’s because you haven’t yet become the person that attracts those things to your life.
If you want great friends, you have to be one too. If you want to attract the man of your dreams well you need to be the woman of his dreams. If you want to become a millionnaire, you need to act and have the habits of one. Don’t seek after the things, seek after becoming better.